Cowardice and Impotence
Sunday, November 29, 2009 at 6:00AM |
Email Article Cowardice and impotence. Guess who? None other than King David.
2 Samuel 13 - Here's the situation. David had two sons (among many others) Amnon and Absalom. The two were only half-brothers. Amnon was David's eldest son. Absalom had a full sister named Tamar.
Apparently Tamar was incredibly beautiful. She was a single virgin. Her half-brother, Amnon, grew in his affection for her. Over time, he began lusting after her and he wanted her more and more. Eventually, with the help of a friend, Amnon coerced Tamar into his bedroom and he raped her. Then, having raped her, he refused to marry her as the Law required.
Well this understandably tweaked Tamar's full brother Absalom. And 2 Samuel 13:21 says that it also upset the King. "When King David heard of all these things, he was very angry." But that's it. Nothing. Amnon went on doing his thing. Tamar was forced to live in desolation (v. 20) in Absalom's house. David did nothing. As the King of Israel, he did nothing. As the father of the family, he did nothing.
The result will be even more disastrous. Absalom is going to kill Amnon. Then Absalom is going to manipulate the kingdom from his father and anoint himself king over Israel. Then Absalom is going to try to kill King David! Bad, right?
For the reader of Samuel, this is very surprising. The David we have seen thus far has been a man of valor and courage. He would not tolerate a fearsome giant mocking God's people, so he slew him with a rock. He circumcised one hundred of his enemies to pay the bride-price for his wife. He killed the man who killed his enemy (that is, King Saul) because he said that Saul was the Lord's anointed one.
And suddenly, in his house, in his own family, a brother violates, rapes, and puts out his sister, shames her and ruins her life, and King David does nothing. Nothing! What in the world happened to David?
This is all happening in 2 Samuel 13. Did you look it up? Check out the preceding two chapters. 2 Samuel 11-12 is the horrible story of David seeing, lusting after, and sleeping with Bathsheba. Then he covers it up, tries to deceive, and ultimately murders her husband Uriah. He is confronted and punished in chapter 12. And in chapter 13, the great, mighty, and courageous King David is morally impotent.
How can he confront sin when he just committed such debauchery? How can he rebuke his son when he did far worse? You see? You see what sin does? Fathers, you see what sin does? Husbands? Friends? It destroys you in every way.
Wake up! Your life is not just about you. Your sin is not just about you. You live in a network of relationships. Your sin destroys and affects everyone in that network, that community. Most importantly, it leaves you impotent to be Christ to your loved ones when they need it most.
Are you standing at the edge of a great precipice? Are you strolling around on the roof of the palace, ready to at any minute to spot a naked beauty bathing in the sun? Close your eyes and run! "There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death." (Prov. 14:12) Don't take that road. Look to Christ and live!
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